Pet Loss Counsellor - "My pet peeves"
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Pet Loss Counsellor - "My pet peeves" |
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What you will learn from this video:
My PET peeves (pun intended)
Cantankerous George is hanging out with me for this one and asking questions that I tend to get asked a lot.
Question 1. Cantankerous George: What's your job?
Madonna: Cantankerous George, do you mind if I call you Cg.
Cg; No, that's cool.
Mad: I'm a grief counsellor for pet owners whose pets have become ill, gone missing, or passed away.
Question 2: Is that actually a thing?
Me: Apparently George.
Q 3. Don't only old people get upset about their pets dying? Are most of the people who come to you super old?
Answer: Cantankerous George, this is wrong on so many levels I don't even know where to start.
Q 4. So do people cry and stuff in counselling about their pets?
Me: George, they cry and stuff in counselling. That's a big part of what counselling is for.
Q5. George: I bet the people who come to you don't have kids. It's only people without kids who treat their pets like babies I reckon?
Answer: Pass.
George, I realise you have your own thoughts and opinions which you are very entitled to but can you give me just a few seconds to fill in the blanks a little more?
Yeah, mate, no worries. All good.
Thanks George.
Let me say this loudly and clearly … again with the loudly part.
PETS ARE LOVED by all sorts of people, young, old, in between. PETS ARE LOVED AND GRIEVED BY all sorts of people, YOUNG, old and in between.
People cry in counselling, really really cry. Sometimes they can't stop. Grieving tends to be related to crying funnily, or not funnily enough.
Grief counselling is a job. It's no different to grief counselling for people which I'm sure you have heard of. Love is love and people's grief is felt and expressed in the same ways regardless of the object of their affection.
People love their pets whether they do or do not have children. This is possibly one of the biggest myths I wish to debunk! Pets do become like another child for many families. A furry, feathered or scaly child. Many parents find pet child a breeze and a delight compared to the children in human form.
Cantankerous G if you don't get the whole grief pet loss thing that's okay. I know many people don't. If you want to take just one thing on board my suggestion would be to withhold judgement. If you don't get it you don't get it, but don't add to people's grief by judging, okay?
George: Sure, but I still think it's all a bit of a joke.
Me: Arrrrrrggggghhhhhhhh.
Stay tuned for more instalments with Madonna & Cantankerous George
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00:00 Introduction
00:12 State of shock
00:44 Grieving is NORMAL
01:09 You grieve alone - Hidden Grief
01:27 Julia Samuel quotes (not Samuels as I said in video, sorry!)
02:09 Other ways to express grief (this is not exhaustive by any means)
02:26 Be kind to yourself
00:52 Is that a real job?
01:02 Is it only old people who grieve their pets?
01:16 Do people cry in counselling about their pets?
01:33 Is it only people without kids who grieve for their pets?
02:10 The TRUTH about who grieves for their pets the most |
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Pets & Animals |
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