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I'm Molly from Self Serve Toys. I'm going to tell you a little bit about strap-ons, harnesses, dildos, and all sorts of fun you can have while strapping it on. The good news is this video series will give you an intro to all kinds of techniques, tools, and supplies with strap-ons, harnesses and dildos. The bad news is there's no sex in this video. Just a warning upfront.
If you're interested in dildos and harnesses, you are not alone. Actually, the oldest discovered dildo was from 4000, to 6000 BC. It was made of carved bone. If you're wondering if this is a new crazy idea, strapping it on, or playing with fake penises and dildos and cocks, well you're not the first to try it.
Be reassured that as long as people could create something as a sex toy, they have been doing so. It's been going on a long time. Another really fun fact for your trivia or Geeks Who Drink kind of night is that the word "dildo" comes from the Italian "diletto," which means delight. Of course many people enjoy when they meet their favorite new dildo, or collection of dildos. There's a lot of fun to be had, a lot of delight to be enjoyed, with dildos and harnesses.
I just wanted to put it out there right away: there's a lot of misinformation, myths, and cultural guilt around strap-on sex. Well, let's just dispel some of those myths upfront. If you like strap-on sex, you may be someone who doesn't have an attached penis, and you'd like to strap it on and bend someone over, or do it face-to-face, with a wonderful cock in between you.
Bottom line, you're probably looking to have more fun with a part that you want to adapt, or try something new, or really enjoy a new sensation with a partner. It can definitely be a power play, or a gender play situation, if there's a female, transgender, genderqueer person who's interested in feeling a little different gender expression.
Certainly a woman can feel more powerful or dominant if she straps it on with another partner, male or female. Certainly there are females who strap it on with a guy, they enjoy pegging, or bend over boyfriend. That's another fun activity for that couple—it doesn't mean that the guy is bi, gay, or anything else. It just means that he's excited to try something new with a partner.
Any of those myths you have heard, certainly a guy could be bi, or gay, but all it really means is he wants to enjoy strap-on sex. Any of that guilt, shame, or confusion that you're feeling if you're interested in strap-on sex, no matter who you are, no matter what your identity, it's a great activity for everyone to try.
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